I used to have to preen to the MAX before I would *sort of* pass the acceptability text with “Mike” the narcissist.
I would have to have sexy clothes on, full face of make-up, hair all done aka straight, nails done, matching
When I shared this vulnerability with the narcissistic "Mike", he ignored it until it was ammo for him. Then he said things like, "that's disgusting!" "Go get that fixed". He used it against me to try to get what